Who is Birdi Sinclair? (fkaDeb Miller)
Embrace the wisdom of the spirit world
And discover the profound insights that await you.
~ Birdi
First Things First
This is not about magic, even though it's magical.
The skills of communicating with spirit and energy that I have developed through my life are part of you as well - really!
It may look a little different for each of us, but these gifts are part of everyone’s animal and spiritual nature.
When I was a hospice nurse in NYC area at the height of the AIDS pandemic, I learned how to carefully mingle my lifelong intuitive skills with my profession in a helpful manner. I have focussed and committed to learning and developing it with intention since.
You see, we can have an aptitude and do nothing with it, it hungers and eventually may wither. We can have a curiosity, and flourish, expand, bloom, regardless of aptitude.
What we devote ourselves to grows.
What would you like to bloom?
What Do We Trust?
There are so many ways our whole being gives us information. We have our chemical connections between us and nature, we have instinct and intuition, and we have the nuance that we came here as hard-wired babies rady to understand even the most tiny changes in facial expressions and body language.
We also have the filters of uor culture, our family, our spiritual practices (or lack of) and more - that influence
our self trust.
"I have to see it to believe it" actually doesn't apply to much in our lives.
So much of what we think, feel, experience is not tangible.
At my heart, I am a teacher, a mystic, and a guide.
Quietly soulful and full of curiosity, my hands and my mind are always exploring,
finding some kind of wonder or playful mischief - all intangibles!
Yet the experiences are palpable.
The world and thoughts are the best toy.
My earliest years were unconventional and I experienced that there is a path forward,
no matter our differences, circumstances, goals, or the pain we carry.
It may not look how we think it should, or always feel amazing, but a path is always there ready to free us, and that IS amazing.
Remembering to choose from love instead of fear grounded me.
It became a tangible method of how to choose next steps.
mys·tic
/ˈmistik/
noun
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a person who seeks by contemplation and self-surrender to obtain unity with or absorption into the Deity or the absolute, or who believes in the spiritual apprehension of truths that are beyond the intellect."the poetry of the 16th-century Spanish mystic, St. John of the Cross"
Love and Curiosity
are your most powerful connectors:
to your inner wisdom, to the mystical, and these all move you forward.
Unsure how?
Let me show you
I left home when I was 9
✓ I was not rebellious. I was betrayed, hurt, and searching for better. I trusted my inner Self
✓ I was not a problem. I knew better than what I was expected to accept. I lived this truth in the best ways I knew how at the time
✓ I was not safe. It was worth the known and unknown risks for me to take my chances. I stand by my path even now. I learned how to create a safe village, including within me
✓ I was not lazy or looking for an easy out. Nothing about this was easy. I rejected these judgments and comforted, bore witness, and advocated for others
✓ I was not selfish. I was kind, connected, and clear about what was and was not acceptable to my values, to my soul.
Yes, even a 9 year-old knows what they stand for.
What I Live
Certain values were as clear and consistent in me now as they were then.
They were also reinforced by the many beautiful experiences I had along the way.
Value 01.
Compassion
Compassion is at the heart of my approach to spiritual counseling and mediumship, to life. I am dedicated to providing a nurturing and nonjudgmental environment where you can explore your innermost thoughts, emotions, and spiritual experiences. With deep empathy and understanding, I walk alongside you on your path to healing and self-discovery.
We are never as alone or lost as we may feel.
The Nitty Gritty
I am Rev. Dr. Birdi Sinclair. All of my training and experience in healthcare, spirituality, and sociology has combined to be with you in a challenging time of life.
I'm ordained as an interfaith minister - which is more about soulful connection and unifying/peace activism then about any one religion. After a career as a hospice nurse and therapeutic arts counselor,
I completed my doctorate in sacred dialogue, activism, and engagement. I specialize in caring for your grief, relationships, death literacy, and healing. We cultivate your sense of wholeness through emphasizing self-care, spiritual exploration, and embracing the language of the arts. Balancing psychology, neurobiology, sociology, spirituality, and the arts creates a soulful thread in what I offer and create for you.
My passion is to connect you with yourself, with others, and the world for your own sense of awe, belonging, and personal power.
For over 30 years, I speak, teach, present nationally,
even hosting my own TV show for 3 years.
What a hoot! The focus was on the power of one.
Training businesses and organizations in LGBTQA+ topics are
near to my heart, as are facilitating safe spaces for healthcare
leaders and veterinarians. This gives a space for their grief,
relationship, and self-care needs that are
specific to their professions.
I live, paint, write, kayak, ride bikes, and drink tea in NH
with my sweetheart of over 20 years and our pup -
who we suspect is part baby dragon.
We go camping every chance we get.
My kids are grown and flown.
It's all pretty neato.
I'm glad to be here with you in this time of your life.
Something Fun
My Grandmother is in this picture.
Can you guess who she is?
I offer myself to you with rich and varied experience and a connected heart
to help you:
* realize your own paths in mind and actions
* increase your own sense of self,
* make your own connections,
In Kindness,
Birdi
