Deb Miller
Spiritual Counseling
Spiritual Counseling
psychic medium for people & animals
WHAT IS THIS ALL ABOUT?
Some of the questions I frequently am asked about Terms, Ideas, Experiences. Explanations of Services and Sessions are found on Services page.
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Frequently Asked Questions
HOW DO YOU CHOOSE A PSYCHIC, A MEDIUM, AN ANIMAL COMMUNICATOR, A MEDICAL INTUITIVE?
Ask questions. It's more than a flash feeling from smiles, charisma, or products that promise something, it's more like dating.
There are a lot of reasons for doing this type of work, lots of ways to develop any kind of profession or skill. This is one of those fields that can be very abstract. Bad or irresponsible information can stick like a bad kiss, once it gets in, it doesn't leave you. Anyone who claims to be an "expert" or have a higher vibration, to know more than you in some way should be questioned.
Please remember those beautiful and radical souls for their times - like Jesus, Gandhi, Buddha and others - who taught things like being connected with Nature, Kindness and Intelligence and of course each other as being keys to great things, many of the things we all seek dearly.
Trust yourself when seeking guidance. You are a beautiful expert, even when you're feeling vulnerable and unsure. You are also spirit.
Together we are here in this place. Be still enough for a minute to listen or feel what and who you need for support, food, environment, time, companionship, health, or changes. All the things we spend so much time spinning about. You will also know who might best guide you, or not.
Life takes courage, and rest, and action, and more. A little goes a long way.
Why do you do this work?
We all have courage, love, compassion and curiosity, but we also carry fear, confusion, isolation and chaos.
These are what can equally bind and divide us.
In the times where we wish we could sit at the table with our loved ones and have their wisdom, their deep knowing perspective or resolve undone things, we may need a well-trained tour guide or a facilitator who can connect us with Spirit sources and even teach us to trust & learn our own ways of connecting. Our deeper focus, our unique paths of growth, stability or healing, and our own truth that we are not alone can make the difference of feeling peaceful in a direction, or release a lasting soothing deep inside that no one can create for you, only guide you to authentically.
I hope to bring this to you, clearly and with content and information that makes sense to you.
Collectively we are stronger and more. Compassionately we can create a more dynamic, maybe even kinder place together. I really believe this.
How can I develop my self? Developing your own Intution, Psychic Skills, Mediumship, etc?
101: Throw away all the Be Psychic Now type things. avoid the internet in these how-to-because- I- was - divinely -told- topics - it only feeds a million egos or even a million wallets... this is a multi billion dollar industry.. go outside. Invest yourself in Nature and Natural things. Learn Mindfulness. Become very present with your own understanding of who you are, what your fears and strengths are. Why you want to become more awake, and what is or isn't your business to get involved with. Just because you can, does it mean you should? Does it mean everyone wants or needs to know? HAHAH, it's a big responsiblitiy. Take your time. Be gentle with yourself and others. Know what's yours and what isn't. It's precious, and a privilege to witness the MORE. But it's also wonderful to just notice more everyday things, like the caterpillar crossing the driveway that you may not have seen before. Begin noticing all your senses. Take it all in. But as an observer. Your emotions are your own. Being kind is not the same thing as owning everything you experience. What I'm saying may seem like a lack of direction, but it really is the foundation. Be Still, Connect with Nature, Open your Senses, Become Aware of your Senses. Trust Yourself, Mind Your Own Business, Be Kind. Take Your Time. You may be really surprised how these things are very helpful keys to the kingdom we are all a part of. You'll find yourself without the mumbo jumbo, and this is free. Contact me for more information or for advanced guidance and classes.
Is Everyone Psychic?
I believe that we are all spiritual beings as much as we are all intellectual, physical, emotional, etc. beings. This, then, is a language we all have access to in varying degrees. I love to cycle, but I'm not riding in the Tour de France any time soon. I can however become a much, much stronger and able cyclist than I am now. It is important to be grounded, balanced, healthy oriented no matter what our endeavors and challenges of self are. I see some people get very superstitious and freaky deaky when they begin delving into metaphysical or paranormal things. It can be a most beautiful aspect of "right relationship". Why go bonkers about it? I hope that's received in the sweetness it was meant.
When did you know? How long have you been this way? Etc?
I've been this way as long as I know. I can tell you stories going back to being tiny. My family is this way. Most people I've talked with have that person or people in their family that they have some language for... That's just Alice, she always knows, or Granpa always had a way of ... and so on. Someone might be known for their dreams or a particular skill with something, they have a knack... haha. It was common conversation actually, in my home when I was young. Even in some of the homes in my neighborhood. It wasn't until I went to school that I learned quickly that other homes were not this way, My dad didn't get it either. He would get pretty bothered by it. We had some pretty intense interactions actually when I was very, very young. That's the way it goes sometimes. Kids know what they know. We all adapt to our culture, neighborhoods, environments and land where we will on whatever it is, don't you think? Balancing survial with drive - Political or religious beliefs, LGBT understandings, other needs, identifiers, and abilities and skills...Who would we all be if we could find nurturing ways?
What are the qualities of a good reading? and a good Reader?
A Reader: Expect clear, accountable, usable information from start to finish, free from judegement and "shoulds" or filler information that ultimately does not help your current life. Your support system that guides a reading - whether the Reader is a Psychic Medium, a Tarot Card Reader, an Astrologer or using any other tool, ulitmately they are guided by a source. If they are professional and developing themselves like any other career person, they are contiunually learning their field as well as supporting elements to their practice, knowing their client base's needs. If someone is working mainly with animals for example, perhaps they may take animal nutrition courses or behavior trainings or learn more about anatomy of the animals they work with. It's just good sense. This would be another hallmark of a dedicated reader.
How soon is too soon for a medium session after someone passes? Does someone always come through?
There's no such thing as too soon. It's very different for every situation. It has more to do with grief, and how ready or healthy will it be for you to meet with them. It's more about Love. Is it a loving and helfpul time? I have never had a time where someone didn't come through. If for some reason a person someone was hoping for did not come through, someone else does and it is very, very clear why their other person did not. People are not "stuck" ,"trapped", " suffering" in some way as some may be worried about. This is not my experience, regardless of how a person may have passed and it becomes very clear during our time together. Love is love, and those that care for you work together for the best and most healthy, useful outcome for the timing of our meeting.
Animals, Really?
Yup. Can be from a long time ago, or current - living or passed. It can be very surprising the things they talk about. Their insights are so intimate and useful. It can be about them, their physical, social or emotional needs or about you and yours. It's their perspective.
Is there another option to in person Hypnosis during the pandemic?
https://www.hypnosisdownloads.com/ is a site recognized by many of my colleagues. I have not used their services or interacted with them myself, but you can explore it and see what you think. It did come highly recommended by colleagues I personally know and respect and I think some of their offerings are reasonably priced and packaged. Send me an email if you use them, to let me know your experience first hand. I would love that.
